5 ways to comfort the hurting.
We all want to help the people we love the most. Feeling sorry for someone and trying to cheer them up sometimes makes that person become more upset, annoyed, or angry with us. It’s not what we intend to do but how we do it that makes the difference.
If our timing is off or we choose the wrong tactic, the outcome of our attempt to help can be the polar opposite of our intent; the person we are trying to comfort may perceive our words and behaviors as insensitive.
Here are 5 tips to help others when we know they are hurting:
1. Be There
2. Listen
3. Keep your opinion to yourself
4. Don't give advice
5. Stay Positive
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